Watch Your Mouth! Things You Should Never Say To Your Man

4. If You Don’t Do…I’m Leaving!

The Ultimatum – for most relationships this is the kiss of death. If you think you can force, threaten or manipulate your man into: being faithful, committing to you, marrying you, stop drinking or any other behavior you wish to change by giving him an ultimatum, you might be seriously mistaken. No one wants to feel like they’ve been forced into a corner; and by doing so, you may not get the result/reaction you were looking for. In fact, you most likely will convince him that you’re crazy and that he should retreat and do the exact OPPOSITE. If you can’t accept him for who he is and you’re not getting what you need out of the relationship, then it’s time to reevaluate. Giving ultimatums is usually born of insecurity and is an act of desperation, and will most likely scare your man away.