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Over the past decade, sex parties have shifted from being a taboo activity to a more mainstream event, with millennials and Gen Z partygoers leading the charge, according to Metro UK. With that being said, if you belong to these age groups, you may find yourself unexpectedly invited to a sex party. While the invitation can be surprising, and sometimes even overwhelming, it’s important to approach the situation with thoughtfulness and respect for both yourself and willing participants. Whether you’re curious, hesitant, or unsure, the experience can be exciting, confusing, or intimidating, depending on your perspective.
Regardless of your feelings, it’s essential to prioritize your personal boundaries, communication, and safety. If you’re on the fence about attending a sex party, here are a few helpful tips to help you navigate this unique situation with confidence and awareness.
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Reflect on your boundaries and comfort levels.
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Before deciding how to respond, take some time to think about your personal boundaries and comfort levels. A sex party may involve explicit activities, so it’s essential to ask yourself a few questions. Are you comfortable with the idea of being in a sexual environment with multiple people? What activities are you open to, and which ones are off-limits?
Remember, there is no obligation to participate if you do attend an event, and it’s okay to decline if you’re not sure or feel uneasy.
In an article for The Atlantic published Feb. 4, writer Xochitl Gonzalez said that if you feel uncomfortable being intimate with attendees “you can listen to music” or “observe” what partygoers are doing. “But no one will consider it rude should you leave without having sex,” Gonzalez added.
If you are interested in participating, consent and self-respect should always come first. Always ask for permission before touching someone, and expect the same respect in return.
