7 Ways To Handle Receiving Those Cringey Unwanted Holiday Gifts

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Sentimental (Aka Guilt-Ridden) Gifts

Pearly necklace in jewelry box

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So your mom gave you jewelry that belonged to her mother, who passed away. Your aunt gave you a backpack that belonged to a distant cousin from his time in the military. We all get these sentimental gifts passed down to us that we really have no use for.

Here’s one simple thing to remember: before you feel guilty about “getting rid” of this item, remember that the person who gave it to you literally did the same thing. They got rid of it when they gave it to you. This happens a lot in families: the older generations feel bad for throwing out or donating their relative’s items, so they just pass the guilt onto you. Don’t let your fear of their judgment make you hold onto an item that you don’t want or need. They also did not want or need it.

It is okay to tell your family, “I appreciate this sentiment very much. I simply do not have room in my home for this right now. Would you like to hold onto it? Otherwise, I will probably donate it.” Give them the option, so they know you didn’t carelessly give it away.

 

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