TMI: Drawing The Line Between Emotional Vulnerability And Oversharing
Show Your Fun Side First
Don’t dive right into the sob stories before the bartender has even taken your drink orders. Spend a good chunk of time showing your fun side, first. Whatever side of you that you choose to present first – that’s what your partner will perceive to be the bulk of your personality. So, be sure to talk about uplifting and humorous things for a while before diving deep. By the time you do get into something serious, your date will feel confident that you can switch back to light topics at any time because you’ve already shown your ability to do that.