You’ll order appetizers, without discussion
How you feel about ordering appetizers depends a lot on what kind of money you make. You have those who immediately order eight appetizers for the table, assuming people are here to have an experience and try lots of different foods. And you have those who try to make sure there is someone who will be splitting these appetizers with them (i.e. splitting the price) before ordering them. And then you very carefully choose just one or two. Once you start making good money, you just start ordering appetizers for the table, not concerned with how the bill shakes out.