For the first time, I saw Clara also attempt to deny her feelings when it came to how she was really handling things in her marriage. She told Pastor Cal it was a 10/10. But once he dug a little deeper, he realized that just could not be the case when she can’t express her unfiltered feelings. She can’t discuss how she feels about sex…or their lack of it. And even worse, she can’t tell Ryan that she loves him for fear that it will push him away. Not being able to communicate feelings–both good and bad is an issue.