How To Date With Your Eyes Wide Open
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Julia Austin
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Keep your hands on the wheel
“Shift [your perspective] from ‘I’m going to cross my fingers and hope this works out’ to deciding ‘Is this the right person for me to be in the relationship that I want?’ That right there is going to clarify a lot of things that, otherwise, you might turn a blind eye to because you’re so focused on being with someone, without taking the time to think about what that actually needs to look like for you,” explains Hogi. “Or you’re ticking the boxes of what’s on the list, without taking the time to understand why that’s even on the list to begin with.”
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