Why Communication Breaks Down In A Relationship
Now, you’re so far from the original issue
At this point, you start fighting about how you fight, and not even about the original argument anymore. It’s a very ugly hat on top of another very ugly hat. You’ve lost sight of the real issues. And the blaming starts. “I did this because you did this.” “Well I did that because you did that.” It can feel like all hope is lost when you get to this place and you stop really talking to each other. You just don’t want to fight, so you don’t talk.