The Truth About Keeping Up Your Looks In A Committed Relationship
Results are about habits
I think the reason my partner was so bothered when I laughed off my weight gain and said, “I won’t be doing anything about it” was that it seemed like I’d decided to make a habit of gaining weight. What does he care if once a week I just enjoy some chocolate and wine? He doesn’t. But if he feels I’ve made the conscious decision to live in a less-than-healthy way every day, naturally, that’s going to concern him.