How To Stop The Blame Game Cycle In A Relationship

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Focus on resolutions; not causes

If you find yourself in one of those matches when you’re just sending accusations back and forth over whose fault something is, stop, step back, and ask yourself: what do we want to happen? Stop focusing on whose fault the problem is and instead ask: so how do we resolve this? It doesn’t really matter who forgot to do what for the house. It matters you find a new system so that it doesn’t happen again.

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