When Your Partner Is Closed Off In Bed
Sex withholding as punishment
Any time I tried to talk about our sex issues, I knew that I risked us just not having sex for a while. And I understand that sometimes long-term couples have less sex, but communication over sex should not be the cause. It was with us, though. He was so insecure about the topic that he felt uncomfortable having sex for a while if I tried to address our issues.