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There may come a time when your partner suggests that you two share your love of X-rated content together. I know a lot of couples who do this regularly. But it is certainly not for everyone. Let’s be honest, you probably have a few genres that you wouldn’t want anyone to know that you watch. Maybe they aren’t even offensive or that hard-core. But, that is not always the issue with that type of content. The porn you watch says a lot about you. It demonstrates some of your more base desires, and is an insight into parts of your psyche that perhaps other people don’t often see, including your partner. Even if you and your partner are very close, there might be some parts of you that he doesn’t know about. You might even think, “I am not sure what my porn says about me. But I would hate for someone else to figure it out before I did.”

On the flipside, watching porn with your partner can be fun, sexy, and bring out your adventurous side. There is a reason a lot of couples make it a regular part of their rotation of sexual activities. It gives you a peek into one another’s most secret desires and a chance to help each other live them out in real life. If that’s something you’re ready and willing to do, watching some naughty videos together could be just the right inspiration.  So, should you watch porn with your partner?

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How open are you about your past?

Some couples are very open about their past, and the fact that they had other partners before this person came along. Then there are some couples who prefer not to talk about that. It’s not like they are naïve to the fact that their partner slept with other people before them, but they just think it is unnatural to think about someone they love so deeply being intimate with somebody else.

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