How Life Changes When You Start Speaking Up
Dating will become simpler
When I was single, I used to make a lot of excuses for men who did things that bothered me. If a guy cancelled three dates in a row, I’d tell myself he was very busy and I should be understanding. But…pretty much any guy who did things like that wound up being problematic in the end. So I started just letting dudes know in the early stages if their behavior bothered me. Some apologized, said it was a huge misunderstanding, and fixed it. Some told me I was high maintenance. I wished them good riddance.