Why Codependency Is One Of The Toughest Addictions

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It isn’t all bad, all of the time
Here’s another complex part of codependency: the thing (or in this case person) to whom you’re addicted isn’t inherently bad. We know cigarettes are just bad. But you may develop codependent behaviors towards a partner who is actually a good, kind, and loving person. He may not be the problem, but rather your behaviors in the relationship are.