Legit Reasons Millennials Are Afraid To Have Kids

August 28, 2019  |  
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millennials and child rearing

I regularly have nightmares about discovering that I’m pregnant. These are my nightmares. In the nightmare, I’ll start scrambling to find a pregnancy test to retake—these results cannot be true. I feel like I’m falling through quicksand. I wake up from these dreams sweaty, and terrified, and so glad it was just a nightmare. So if I want a real answer to the question how do I feel about having kids I’m pretty sure that’s my subconscious letting me know. But there are a lot of reasons I am consciously afraid of having kids, including how my own childhood made me view parenthood. I’ve been talking to my peers who are right around that age when they may or may not have kids, and I’m learning something: millennials in particular are frightened of bringing kids into this world.

 

 

millennials and child rearing

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New gender rules

We are glad that gender norms are dissipating, but we also aren’t clear on what the new rules are around talking to our children about gender, or assigning them a gender. Sure, when they grow up, they can choose their gender but…what about when they’re just babies? And toddlers? Will we mess them up by calling them “he” or “she?”

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