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what sexual fantasy says about you

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When it comes to sexual fetishes, I say, to each her own, and as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, go for it. But sometimes you learn about certain fetishes and you just have to think, “Do those interested in this perhaps need, um, therapy?” Often, the way we are in bed and the things that turn us on are very much an insight into our personalities, including our insecurities, fears, and dreams. I personally will not do a threesome, and I’m sure many people could psychoanalyze me for that. But, I believe that many sexual preferences and proclivities fall within the reasonable group of desires and fears, while others may betray a deeply troubled mind. On that note, if your partner is into any of this bedroom play, you should probably be concerned.


Finding thirds online

Some people aren’t just into swinging, finding thirds, and having orgies, but they’re also turned on by finding strangers to do this with. They may find them on social media, certain online forums, or—worse—Craigslist. In this day in age, we have to remember how many people are just Catfishing us online, and may be looking for an in to rob you…or worse.

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