For those of us who consistently have vaginal or clitoral orgasms, when the magic finally stops, you could find yourself understandably sexually frustrated. Questions may race through your head: Is my vagina broken? Is my vagina only capable of achieving a certain number of orgasms, and I’ve used them all up? Will I ever orgasm again?
The thoughts can be downright panic inducing. The worst part is, you achieve orgasms in your most relaxed, comfortable state, so anxiety over not being able to cum is going to make it even harder to reach your climax.
The good news is, there are ways to get back in the flow. It’s just going to take some patience, mental zen, and bodily awareness.
Read on for the five stages of orgasm “loss” and how to gently nudge your body back to the peak.