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When you’ve been with someone for a while, your sex like can become delicate—to say the least. At the beginning of a relationship, your urge to have sex is like an undeniable force. You are basically always game to cancel everything for a session in the sack. Your bodies are buzzing with sexual desire. Nothing can hold you back from doing the deed. As you’ve been together for years, the scales tip entirely. You barely make time for sex—everything else takes over your schedule. Your libido declines and requires extra work to be revved up. And on the rare occasion you are both rearing to go, just about anything can get in the way. Keeping up a sex life in a long-term relationship is important, but when you get comfortable and you build a life together—a life full of responsibilities and obligations—sex juts gets pushed to the backs of your minds. Or, something kills the mood. Here are surprising mood killers that mean sex is cancelled.


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You both get into bed, ready to do the deed, but you take one final peek at your phones before taking your clothes off. And…something on Facebook upsets you or sparks a libido-killing discussion. Like that couple that’s been together for less time than you have who is already engaged.

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