Is Your Partner A Jerk When He Drinks? - Page 8
Get backup
Do other people agree that your partner is an a*&hole when he drinks? Maybe his friends see it, too? Get backup. Ask them to say something, too. You don’t need to say it all in the same place—that can feel like you’re teaming up—but you can separately mention it. What he sees as nagging or an intervention from you, might just feel like being checked up on when coming from friends.