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Sexual compatibility is a funny thing. Some would say that if you don’t feel like you click in bed that it’s simply because you aren’t in love. Others might say that anybody can be sexually compatible if they’re willing to do a little communicating. I believe some of that. But I also know that sometimes, casual flings can be the source of some amazing sex and I also know that sometimes couples who love each other deeply just don’t have electricity under the sheets. Whatever is true, you always know when the sex just isn’t…what it could be. It’s frustrating. You make the time to be there. You drive over late at night. You shaved all sorts of areas. You want this to work and then everyone still feels…unsatisfied. Well, let’s be honest: men usually wind up, err, satisfied either way. Sometimes just less than others. Here are signs you’re sexually incompatible.
You really notice the noises
You’re very aware of the noises. The creaking bed. The skin smacking against each other. The wet sounds. The shuffling of the sheets. The squirting noise the lube bottle makes. You aren’t very in the moment and enjoying yourself if you’re so aware of all the noises. Those fade away during good sex.
