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Considering how much we grow and change during the first 30 or so years of our lives (and we never really stop learning), it’s no wonder we lose some friends during our formative years. We go through phases when we are certain that this or that is our new, top priority. Any friends who don’t fall in line with that get the boot. Then we have friends who decide that we don’t fit into their lifestyle and goals anymore. And now, today, I look back and realize how silly I was. I was going through a phase. I thought I knew who the new, permanent me was but the truth is, I was still developing into the woman I’d be. Unfortunately, there were some casualties along the way in the friend department that perhaps wouldn’t have occurred if I’d known them today. If you feel this is true for you then here are friends you should give another chance after a falling out.
The boyfriend-obsessed
You know that friend who became so obsessed with her relationship, would bring her man to girls’ night, would cancel on you at the last minute to be with her guy, and always talk about her relationship? She may have grown up since then and learned how to balance her priorities. We can all get a little boyfriend-obsessed in our first serious relationships.
