Having A Nanny And Staying Close To Your Kids
Don’t bring the nanny on vacation
This one can be tough but, I might recommend leaving the nanny behind on vacation. You can have grown up only vacations when you leave the kids at home with the nanny. But attempting some hybrid vacation, in which you bring the kids and the nanny and sneak away with your partner most of the day only encourages the idea to your children that they and the nanny are one unit, and you and your partner are another.