Myths About Commitment Phobes
They’re picky
Are commitment-phobes just picky individuals, who would be willing to commit if some perfect, unicorn of a partner who doesn’t exist came along? I don’t know about that. But what if we rephrase it to say that commitment-phobes don’t believe they should waste their energy or hopes—or the energy or hopes of others—until they feel they’ve really found someone special. That’s not so bad, is it?