Finish this sentence: Dating is fill in adjective here. Did you come up with words like tough, infuriating, depressing, tiring, sad, annoying, maddening, or stupid? Yikes. Sorry you’re having such a rough time out there. Or rather, sorry that you’re making things so rough on yourself. Look, we can make our experiences anything we want. Our attitude affects what we experience, including how people respond to us. If you’re going into dates with a bad attitude about dating, you’re going to put off someone with whom you may have actually been compatible. Even if you manage to put on a happy face for dates, but at home, you indulge in some rather nasty thoughts about the whole business, that negative mindset is probably seeping into your behavior. And it’s not helping matters. Here are negative thoughts about dating to banish today.
Men just want to date 20-year-olds
Sure, the immature men. But are those the guys you want to date anyways? Maybe be grateful that so many men blatantly want to date women two decades younger than them; it makes it easier to spot the mature guys.