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Marriage isn’t always going to be perfect. In fact, it’s going to be far from it most of the time. Marriage is like driving a car: it’s a series of constant adjustments. If you aren’t aware of your changing surroundings and you don’t make the appropriate adjustments, you’ll crash. So you don’t just get to exchange vows and expect this whole love and happiness thing to be on autopilot. Marriage is very active and conscious. The good ones are, at least. A small wrong turn or bump in the road shouldn’t mean the end of a marriage. But there are some events and changes that, when they happen, signal the fact that someone has been making wrong turns over and over again for a long time—until he got to a dead end. Some marital changes show that one or both people weren’t willing to make adjustments, starting a long time ago, and they can end a marriage. Here are things that can and probably should end a marriage.
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Your partner no longer wants to socialize with you
Your partner no longer sees you as a friend. He has his social life, and then he has you. He doesn’t associate you with fun. He separates you from his friends. He goes out to do fun things and then comes home to see you. But you’ve stopped experiencing new things together or developing new memories, and your partner doesn’t see a problem with that.
