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Oral sex tends to be right up there with well paying job when it comes to a man’s list of priorities, but “Married To Medicine’s” Dr. Simone Whitmore has an important piece of advice for women who are not too keen on going down on their man: it’s OK.
The OBGYN, and now reality star, surprised viewers when in season 2 of the Bravo series she told her castmates she rarely performs oral sex on her husband, and in an interview with Sister 2 Sister, Dr. Whitmore explained why her choice isn’t a death sentence for her relationship.
“The thing is, we are all different, and I’ve been married for 18 years. I love my husband; he still loves me. It’s important for women to know, whatever it is you feel comfortable with doing in the bedroom with your husband or not doing, it is okay. It is. It’s okay.”
If you’re mind immediately trailed to the thought, “what I won’t do another woman will,” kill it, Dr. Whitmore advised.
“The reality is, divorce is 50 percent in this country, and I know that there are women who are giving it to him uptown, downtown, sideways, flip it up, rub it, oh no, whose husbands or partners are still cheating on them. The most important message that I would tell any woman is look at you, work on you, love you and demand that he love you like you want to be loved and you can’t worry about the rest. No matter what you’re doing, even if you think you’re doing it all, there is another woman out there who’s willing to do more than you.”
Amen to that. It’s about time women were told to put their own desires and level of sexual comfort above a man’s. But do you think there are many husbands out there who’d be able to handle an oral-less marriage?
“Married To Medicine’s” Mariah Huq may have started out #TeamQuad but after the drama we saw between the two this season, we began questioning the reality stars’ friendship. That’s why when Miss Mariah came by the office we had to ask her about their relationship and how she’s fairing with the rest of the ladies since she was excluded from their couple’s retreat. Check out the interview above and see why the reality star is still casting for a new season of the medical reality drama. What do you think?
“Married To Medicine” airs Sundays at 9PM ET/PT on Bravo.
A couple of months ago, “Married To Medicine’s” Dr. Heavenly Kimes ruffled a few feathers when she proudly shared that she submits to her husband, who is the head of their household, and further let it be known that the example she set is one Black women in particular need to see more of. When we got the dentist in the office we had to ask her about her comments and to explain why she thinks African American women need to learn a thing or two about submission. We also wondered how the medical community has responded to her foray into reality TV and, shockingly, Dr. Heavenly claims she hasn’t received any backlash since joining the BravoTV family. Do you believe her?
Check out the video above and let us know what you think about Dr. Heavenly and her husband’s example of a submissive marriage.
Have you ever noticed whenever you’re watching Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta, Real Housewives of Atlanta or Married to Medicine, all the Atlanta reality TV socialites talk like gay men? When Quad and Dr. Simone from the latter Bravo TV show stopped by the office, we had to ask them about this over-the-top trend and particularly whether they’ve personally received any backlash as a number of gay Black men have requested that women such as themselves stop stealing their lingo.
We also asked Dr. Simone how the medical community reacts to their reality shenanigans and if they’re ever embarrassed by their own behavior. Unsurprisingly, they tried to downplay their messiness as only they can. Check out the video above to hear all they had to say. Are you over Atlanta women talking like gay men?
Tune in for new episodes of Bravo’s Married to Medicine each Sunday at 9:00pm ET/PT.
“Married To Medicine’s” Heavenly Kimes On Submission: “Black Women Need To See A Woman Who Takes Care Of A Household”
MadameNoire doesn’t know much about Dr. Heavenly Kimes other than she’s a leading Atlanta dentist and founder of Heavenly Dental Associates, Inc., oh, and a fiesty new cast member on Bravo’s “Married To Medicine” who’s shaking things up in more ways than one.
Already having to defend her stance that a dentist is also a doctor to her fellow cast mates, Dr. Kimes is now explaining her comments about submitting to her husband, who’s also a doctor. As you can imagine, the declaration from such a high-powered woman that she submits to her husband didn’t go over too well with audiences during a previous episode of the show, but wpeaking with Sister 2 Sister, Dr. Kimes didn’t back down from her beliefs, telling the magazine:
“I submit to my husband. I make my husband’s food. I take care of the household. I understand my role as a wife and a mother.
“Black women need to see a woman who takes care of a household, who’s married with children and that’s not seen a whole lot,” she said, adding that regarding the show as a whole, “It should be applauded that all of us are educated. We talk about business, money and relationships. I think that’s a part of the whole scope of life.”
Let’s get back to that whole household thing though, shall we? Dr. Kimes’ position certainly isn’t new and, for many, is a biblical mandate, but we’re going to guess what most female viewers took issue with more than her cooking dinner for her husband was calling him “daddy.” Explaining her vernacular, she said:
“I thought that was cute. When my son was born, I would say ‘Damon’ and both of them would answer.”
Guess the nickname just stuck after, huh?
I don’t know about you but I feel a side-eye coming on. True, we don’t see many brown women who are happily married with children on TV, but are we lacking a submissive role model to show us how to take care of house and home? I’m not sure about that. What do you think about Dr. Heavenly Kimes and her stance on submission?
“Married To Medicine” Star Mariah Huq On RHOA Brawl: I Understand Why Folks Physically Fight On Reality TV
After news broke of the big fight between Real Housewives of Atlanta stars Porsha Williams and Kenya Moore, a lot of people were either saying that it was a crying shame that these two grown women were physically fighting on TV, or saying that Kenya Moore deserved whatever she got. Moore has been quite the instigator since her arrival on the show last season, crossing boundaries with people’s husbands, questioning the validity of other people’s marriages, and talking crazy from time to time. Mariah Huq, of Married to Medicine fame (also on Bravo) can relate to the struggle of dealing with women like Moore on her own show, and she says that such provocation can make people do things they never thought they would–like fight. Huq, who is the creator and executive producer for the show, actually got into a physical altercation during season one of the show (which she said she regretted), and she says it was only because her children were brought into the mix, and she wasn’t having it. Here’s what she told The Purple Girl Show:
“I always said what I wouldn’t do and then when I got on TV, things changed. It’s tough. They hit you in a place that you didn’t know existed when those cameras come on.
When those cameras come on, people get crazy and they get ratchet when the cameras go on. It’s tough. It’s really, really tough…I experienced this first season when it hit me in a place that I wasn’t prepared to deal with on TV, which was my kids. That was my Achilles Heel. I’m quick not to judge the other shows. It’s hard, honey.”
She says a part of this drama is because when a lot of women get together, especially on reality TV, they can go out of their way to be catty.
“When you get a group of women together, the shade just comes naturally. The first episode had so much drama, it made me mad. It’s very real. The shade is real.”
However, she says what sets Married to Medicine apart from other shows is the fact that the women, and the families featured, are all very accomplished and educated:
“The thing that sets us apart, though, and the thing I loved about Married to Medicine is that you saw young black families, successful families. Everybody had a degree. Everybody was married. Yes, you saw us with the struggle. You may have even seen us put on our ratchet hat every once in a while, but it was young, successful, happy black families and that’s beautiful.”
The second season of the show is coming back on April 6, Sunday, at 9 p.m. (ET), right after Real Housewives of Atlanta. Fingers crossed for no messy drama…but don’t hold your breath. Check out the trailer for the new season of Married To Medicine.
‘I Need To Be At The Hospital Catching Babies:’ ‘Married To Medicine’ Returns With Two New Cast Members
Bravo’s controversial reality show “Married To Medicine” is back for another season. All of the show’s original cast members, with the exception of Karie Wells, have returned and two new ladies have also been added to the mix. The show’s newest additions include Lisa Nicole Cloud and Dr. Heavenly Kimes.
Interestingly, according to the network’s description of the new series, BFFs Quad Webb and Mariah Huq’s friendship has significantly deteriorated since last season.
“Mariah and Quad’s once inseparable friendship is barely hanging onto life support,” the description explains. “Mariah, the self-proclaimed “Queen Bee,” has demanded credit for making Quad “relevant” in the exclusive circle of Atlanta medicine, while Quad feels Mariah has a bad case of jealousy.”
That doesn’t appear to be the only relationship on life support. Apparently Dr. Simon and her husband are also experiencing some problems this season.
“Dr. Simone realizes that her busy career and recent financial blunder has taken a toll on her marriage.”
Similar to the current season of “Basketball Wives LA,” motherhood after battling cancer will also be explored this season.
“Dr. Jackie, a two-time survivor of breast cancer, is ready to finally experience motherhood, either through adoption or by using a surrogate — with her biggest obstacle being her husband.”
Though many were outraged by the amount of drama, cattiness and violence demonstrated on the show last season, Bravo producers didn’t seem too fazed by those protests, as the season two trailer foretells that plenty more drama is to come.
“Married To Medicine” is set to make its season two debut Apr. 6.
Watch the drama unfold in the trailer on page two. Are you looking forward to this season?
Almost as soon as the concept for the Bravo TV show “Married To Medicine” became public, it was obvious there were going to be some problems. Almost instantly a petition arose urging the network to remove the reality TV program from its lineup due to its poor depiction of black female doctors and doctor’s wives essentially acting a plum fool in front of cameras. And at the time it seemed there was potential for Bravo to pull the plug on the series, but now that the show is slated to return for a second season, one of its stars and producers, Mariah Huq, is speaking out about the backlash.
In an interview with us, Mariah said she thought the petition was a bit premature since it was concocted before the show even aired. And speaking on whether she thought “Married To Medicine” would actually ever be cancelled, she calmly stated:
“I never for once thought the show would be cancelled because of the petition. I think they had three signatures.” (*insert Kanye shurg*)
Mariah had a similar reaction to questions about Tamar Braxton claiming the reality TV star has been stealing some of her catchphrases, like “yaaaaas.”To that allegation she said:
“I think Miss Tamar is cute. She’s very cute…
“I think it’s messy boots to think you are the only person who talks in third person…you have to understand a lot of people are like that. It’s crazy to think you are the only person with a big personality. That’s why you’re on TV. That’s why I’m on TV.”
In other words, Mariah ain’t got time for that. Check out the rest of our interview with the Atlanta diva in the video below as she talks about her using her middle name, Mariah, in place of her first name Lakeisha and having a “blackadeshi” relationship.
Are you a fan of “Married To Medicine”?
‘I Hate That I Set A Poor Example For My Kids:’ Mariah Huq Expresses Regret Over ‘Married To Medicine’ Brawl
Last night on Bravo TV’s Medicine to Medicine, one of the most ridiculous fights in reality television history went down between co-stars Mariah Huq and Toya Bush-Harris. As childish as it may sound, these grown women got to pulling hair and tussling around a party full of doctors over comments that one made about the other’s mother (I kid you not). Fellow cast members and the show’s audience have equally expressed how ridiculous it was that these grown women came to blows on national television and now, Maria Huq is expressing how much she regrets the showdown. An excerpt from her post reads:
“I remember feeling so hurt, ashamed, and disappointed in myself “initially”after the fight. I felt as if I truly let myself, my family, and friends down. How does a grown educated business woman/mother/wife get into a tussle at a black-tie event? How did I allow a negative girl, with no morals, values, or boundaries bring me down to her level? Not sure what the politically correct answer is, but I know what my truth is. In that moment I was truly hurt and full of despair. Astonished by the lengths people will go to become more relevant. Children are off-limits, point blank, period.
This situation was an eye-opening experience for me. I hold myself to a much higher standard and truly hate that I set a poor example for my kids. I hope and pray it has been an equally valuable lesson in words, consequences and character for Toya as well.”
Mariah’s co-stars Dr. Simone Whitmore and Dr. Jaqueline Walters also weigh in on the fight, expressing their disappointment in Mariah and Toya.
“THIS IS NOT THE MARIAH I KNOW. I had never seen Mariah raise her voice and when I saw her fighting, I was in shock. I still can not believe an actual fight took place. Pinch me, was I in a nightmare?!” Whitemore wrote.
“Both women needed to have handled their emotions, though I will admit this is probably one of the hardest thing for us women to do. Mariah and Toya both admit their dislike for one another, and I am not real sure why they get under each other’s skin. If you don’t like someone, it should be easy to ignore them. Their opinions shouldn’t matter [...] I believe this fight could have been avoided if they had exercised open communication and let go of “who’s right”! I’m not convinced who is right, but I definitely know whose wrong. . .BOTH!!!” Walters added.
What do you make of all of this?
Bravo has struck ratings gold again, despite the backlash their newest series, “Married to Medicine,” received before it even aired. On Sunday night, the premiere episode brought in the highest ratings of any non-spinoff in Bravo’s entire history, with 2 million viewers.
According to a news release posted on Shadow and Act:
Last night’s [Sunday] episode of Bravo Media’s new docu-series “Married to Medicine” earned 1.9 million total viewers and 1.2 million A18-49, according to Nielsen. This marked the network’s highest-rated series premiere since “Bethenny Getting Married?” (6/10/10) and was also the most-watched non-spinoff series premiere in network history.
Having not seen the episode, I can’t say whether that’s a good or a bad thing, although I’m pretty sure where Bravo stands on that. The network description of the new show doesn’t make it sound so bad, saying:
The new docu-series follows the lives of six of Atlanta’s most dynamic and successful women, including doctors and wives of doctors, as they juggle bustling careers, family, and social calendars. From baby deliveries to some of Atlanta’s largest charities, these women are united by medicine, but often struggle to maintain friendships in the face of their world’s rigid hierarchy. These passionate and dynamic women prove that in the capital of the South, and the world of medicine, perception is everything and it’s not enough to be just any type of doctor or doctor’s wife.
But as we all know, things aren’t quite that rosy — after all that wouldn’t make for great reality TV. Besides Howard medical students have already petitioned for the show to be kicked off the air, saying:
Bravo’s “Married to Medicine” not only exploits the 6 lives of its Black female cast members, but, through its advertisements and commercials, heavily associates Black females in medicine with materialism, “cat fights”, and unprofessionalism. In a time when doctors are being held to very high standards by the public and each other, it is unfathomable for such a depiction of medicine and black women to be broadcast on tv where it will be inevitably available for years to come, on the internet and through other media outlets.”
Unfortunately for the group, 2 million or so viewers don’t quite agree with that opinion. We’ll have to see whether the ratings continue to climb or descend after a few episodes. Check some sneak peek previews of upcoming episodes here and if you haven’t caught our interview with the ladies, watch it below. Did you catch the series premiere Sunday?