10 Signs You’re On Your Way to Becoming a Baby Mama

September 18th, 2011 - By LaShaun Williams

More black women in this country are baby-mamas than they are wives. Some even have multiple children with multiple men. Indeed there are several who qualify as hoodrats—of which such outcomes are expected. However, many are quite the opposite—educated, successful, selective. Certainly no one would classify Nia Long as a rat; yet, she has birthed two children out-of-wedlock.

73 percent of black children enter this world at a disadvantage—they are more likely to live in poverty, and more vulnerable to a life in the animal house called prison. Why? We have grown callous to subliminal media influences and fallen victim to false truths and our own naiveté. You see it’s not necessarily the type of man you date that makes you susceptible; it is the defects in your approach to life and romantic relationships.

Here is a list of some of the wrong-thinking that can place you in the position to do it all, alone:

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  • Mikerrr

    This should be required reading for all girls/women. Can’t believe some women actually fall for some of the crap you describe here. (“If-y?” Guys are not iffy about anything; we want to get laid. Period. If there’s anything else to our relationships with you, you’ll know it. If it seems “iffy” at all, there’s nothing else to it and you’re being used.)

    I think you could make one point more blatantly clear (although you did touch on it). You won’t end up a “baby-mama” (I prefer “unwed mother” or “mother of a bastard”) if you don’t sleep around. Abstinence is a 100% guaranteed effective form of birth control. If you absolutely have to give it up, go buy a toy and get some counseling.

    • Windyfrostt

      Tubligation is a good option. It can be reversed at a later time if more children are desired.
      It’s just a day surgery-nothing to it and 100 percent effective. Vasectomies for men were once
      touted for world population control, but don’t hear much about it these days. Good protection for men if a woman gets with child and claims you’re the dad. The doctor’s medical papers can back up you are NOT the father. These two ways are safe and effective. The vasectomy for a man is done in the doctor’s office, very simple. It can also be reversed if more children are wanted later.