Are You Coming On Too Strong? Flirting Mistakes That Women Often Make

August 6th, 2012 - By Nicole Thompson

Some of us are flawless at flirting: suggestive winks, courteous nods and charming smiles are mastered in order to rouse the intricate interpersonal footwork that is flirtation. But, for most women, it’s difficult to know what’s right and what’s wrong when it comes to doing such a dance. We get so caught up in trying to impress someone that all of our cool points go out of the window. Fortunately for you, we’ve made a list of mistakes that women have been known to make when giving someone the eye, so you can try avoiding making them yourself–again.

Being Too Sexually Suggestive

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While it’s alright to show a bit of flesh and tease a bit, you never want to lure a man with pure sexual innuendo because, to put it nicely, he might think that you’re a h*e, and that you would be down for taking things back to his place (and hitting the bedroom). Erotically licking your lips, talking up your sexual experiences, performing the breathy and deep ‘Adult Video star’ voice and visible undergarments are all quick ways for him to get the wrong idea and think that you’re easy.

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  • Elle

    OMG, the baby voice…smh I know a girl who constantly does that voice when talking to her man. It’s so nauseating, like dang speak up! This is not day care.

  • Candacey Doris

    I can definitely agree with the TMI advice. It’s not just past relationship matters you should keep back, it’s work and family stuff he may not nee to hear about on the first date. Not in detail anyway.

  • Machelle Kwan

    I don’t flirt with men at all. But these losers always know how to inject themselves into your person space.

  • Pure Justice

    I would love to know how to be brave enough to flirt with the men I fancy, so I could go on a date.

  • guest44

    I am very good at picking up on emotions and conversation with men. I have no idea where it comes from. My problem is initiating the conversation. If he starts it I will usually follow up.

  • Twinkleberry

    I often see the agressive way to flirt fail. I personally like this guy who is easy going and laid back and chill and I see other girls flirt with him and I can tell he is not interested in them because their way of approaching him doesn’t fit well with his personality. The way that you flirt with a guy should compliment his personality or else he is going to think you’re crazy.