If you are new to using food in the bedroom, it might seem a little intimidating. When you bring actual sex toys into the bedroom, they come with little instruction manuals. Exactly where you put exactly what is laid out in clear terms. But when you’re using food, you make the rules.

If you do have a partner who tends to finish too quickly, it can really put a strain on your relationship. You may begin to resent them, seeing as he always orgasms and you (probably) never do – at least not through intercourse, that is. Here are tips to help turn things around.

If things get desperate, you can always book a little weekend getaway at a reasonable hotel or AirBnb in town. Just make sure that they have air conditioning. You can go bang it out—literally—and tie yourselves over for a few weeks.

Know that watching this type of content together can spark jealousy. You need to feel very secure in your relationship. If you see that your partner, for example, seems to like a certain aesthetic in the film stars—an aesthetic that is totally different from yours—you may feel insecure

If your partner is into being slapped, that does not include his penis. If he likes it rough, that does not mean he wants you being rough with his penis. You can do all the crazy, aggressive BDSM things you want but when you get down there, be gentle.

For the record, women tend to frequent sex workshops more than men do. We’re a bit more open about our bodies, so we don’t mind going to class and taking notes for our partners who stay at home.

There was sort of a window of time for a woman to learn how to be good at using her digits to please her partner. Depending on how early or late of a bloomer you were, maybe that window happened in the late high school years when everybody was still free to admit, “I’m new […]

If anything, protection to prevent pregnancies and against STDs is what parents stress most. Because of that, a lot of what we end up learning about sex comes from our friends, things we’ve read in books, online or saw on TV, and of course, through good old-fashioned trial and error.

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When it comes to sex, not all positions are created equal.