6. You’re Selfless
Selfish people can’t love unconditionally, period, so this is something you must be mindful of. If you are selfish, you only love in the moment and once that moment is over, you are gone. When things are hard, difficult, or not your way, you abandon ship. Part of this selfish mentality is based on pride and the need to be in control. When you enter into a relationship, you are automatically part of a pair, a duo, a partnership. Yes you are still an individual, but compromise will become your best friend necessary to keep your relationship afloat. You will want your partner to be happier than yourself and sacrifice anything for him to feel no pain. If your partner wants to do something that you could care less about, you will forget about your desires and want to enjoy the experience with him, because it’s being with him that matters most. That should be enough.