Dealing With A Family Member Who Won’t Get Her Life Together
Be loving, but be firm
Throughout doing all of this, use a loving tone. While you might feel the urge to talk to this person like a child because she’s acting like one, that tone will only trigger her to act out, more. You can be loving without letting this family member walk all over you. Make sure she always knows you want the best for her, and that you do and say things out of that desire.