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In life, you tend to get the things you believe you deserve. Whether it’s the type of jobs, friends or romantic partners you have, you attract the quality that you think you deserve. And why shouldn’t you? If it doesn’t seem like you believe you should have that great promotion, why should your boss think you should have it? Why would someone trust you with something when your behavior clearly screams, “I’m not worthy of this—I don’t know what to do with this?” The same goes for your relationships. Men can sense when you believe you should have a great relationship, and when you don’t. You’ve probably heard the saying, “Water seeks its own level” but if you haven’t, it means that people are drawn to those similar to them. If you don’t believe you’re worthy of a great partner, then you will attract less-than-great partners. Here are signs you still don’t think you’re worthy of a great relationship.
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You assume the worst
If a man you’re really into doesn’t call when he says he will or has to reschedule a date, you immediately assume it’s because he saw something about you. He must have detected that you’re just deeply flawed and won’t make a good partner. He must be ghosting you. He must be giving you the slow fade.
