If you’re a man who sleeps next to a woman and you notice her tossing and turning a lot throughout the night, I’ve got news for you: women across the globe are doing it. Your friends put up with the same thing. We all do it. Women are just worriers. And at night, when we don’t have work or friends to distract us, the worrying really hits. If you’re a woman who wonders if you’re insane for obsessing over the things you obsess over between 11 pm and 4 am, you’re not insane. But that doesn’t mean you should accept this constant state of purgatory you’re stuck in in the middle of the night. Most of your concerns are ridiculous and seeing them written out like this may show you just how ridiculous they are. Here are common thoughts that keep women awake at night.