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There is nothing wrong with a guy finding himself! In fact, it’s very important that everybody find themselves –especially before getting into a relationship. If a man doesn’t know who he is before attaching himself to someone else there is no chance that relationship will last. Why? Because his personality, tastes, goals, preferences and values are still changing. A woman gets into a relationship with one man and finds herself in it with a totally different one halfway through.

When a man has found himself, his partner can actually predict how he’ll respond to just about every situation, and that’s a good thing. You don’t want to date a guy who has no idea what he would do if he were offered a million dollars to get a vasectomy—see my point? You can’t plan a life with a man who is still finding himself, so know how to spot the ones who are.

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