When it comes to foreplay, not every person is created equal. Some like candles and slow jams, others don’t need much at all. And celebrities aren’t any different. These stars have opened up to let fans into their bedroom. And they have some surprising things to say about what they like in terms of foreplay.
From intellectual stimulation, to a hot bath, to dressing up in costumes on set, you’ll be surprised to hear what these celebrities get into behind closed doors. Whether they shared too much information on social media or gave a few too many details with these confessions, we’ve got all the foreplay tea right here. Get your mugs ready, it’s time for a long sip.
And if you know someone who’s dropping the ball in the foreplay department (side-eye at several ex-boyfriends), maybe slide this list their way and highlight your favorite tips to give them a few pointers.
When BET asked Kevin Hart to spill his foreplay tea, he got so uncomfortable that we’re all wondering what he gets up to. He finally hinted: “I’m a pleaser. I like to make my lady happy.” But we have a feeling there’s a lot more to the story.
Will Smith says that when it comes to foreplay, he likes a little bit of roleplay. He even uses his costume from Hancock!:
“I took the suit home and my wife and I use it sometimes. Just around the house. It’s great.”
No wonder he chose all of those super hero roles.
Will Smith’s wife says, for her, foreplay is all about intellectual stimulation:
“I read a lot of spiritual and self-expansion books. Will and I were just reading The Tao of Physics by Fritjof Capra together and having long discussions about it.”
It’s a big turn-on for me in a relationship to be spiritually and intellectually challenged by Will. To me, it’s like foreplay! Of course, I enjoy that I have sex in my relationship, but I think this other intellectual aspect is quite unique and something that strongly connects us.”
Jennifer Lopez has a celebrity tip for all of the men out there when it comes to foreplay. And that’s to be careful!:
“Women don’t like their nipples twiddled like radio tuners. The guy thinks, ‘Oh, she’s loving it,’ but she’s thinking, ‘God, please stop!'”
Christina Aguilera and her ex-husband Jordan Bratman liked to keep things spicy on the Lord’s day:
“We have something called naked Sundays. On Sundays we just do everything in the house, and we’re just cozy and laid back. We do everything naked. We cook naked.”
Speaking of exes, Ashton and Demi Moore used to use Twitter for foreplay.
Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore aren’t the only ones who used social media to flirt with one another. Remember the time when Kim Kardashian Instagrammed this photo of herself to Kanye (and the whole world)?
Kate Beckinsale says that when it comes to long distances between a relationship, webcams can be the key to heating things up. And she lets her husband Len Wiseman start the fire by telling her what to wear each evening.
Sting says that, when it comes to foreplay, he likes playing dress up:
“I like the theater of sex. I like to look good. I like her to dress up. I like to dress her up … We like tawdry.”
Real Housewives of Atlanta star Todd Tucker said that when you’re married, foreplay is all about being creative:
“It’s just about being fun and thinking outside of the box. Call your man ‘Daddy.’ And don’t be afraid to do all those things you used to do in the beginning… Just because you have a kid or married don’t stop it.”
Heartthrob Patrick Dempsey says that he’s into spicing things up on occasion: “It’s the little things – even a spanking every now and then!”
Martha Stewart says that when it comes to her favorite kind of foreplay it’s always about being squeaky clean: “Always take a bath before (and after).”
Gwyneth Paltrow said that a fight can be good foreplay — if you do it right:
“Every couple argues, but instead of going home to scream, yell and get into a big fight with your guy – do the opposite. If you feel angry, go at him with love instead, and you give him a blow job.”
Apparently, the king of Rock and Roll was also the king of foreplay…