Mary Jane Paul’s life is the epitome of a beautiful disaster. There are times when you envy her, and then, there are those times where her poor choices leave you suffering from second-hand embarrassment. Like most of us, Mary Jane’s ultimate goal is happiness. Sometimes her tactics are all wrong, but there are also plenty of times she gets it right. Either way, there’s always a lesson to be learned. As we anxiously await the first episode of season 3 of our favorite BET series, which airs tonight at 9pm, here are six tips for finding your happy, courtesy of Mary Jane.