Vetting Your Love Interest: The Dos and Donts

When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them

Sheldon screamed non-committal. As much as he shrouded himself in mystery it made perfect sense for him to not want cohabitation. He was an age in I like to call “too old to be young and to young to be old,” so he’s pretty stuck in his ways. The dating younger women and refusing to finish (What part of the game is that?!) are all telltale signs of someone who isn’t looking to get married and have children. Settle down? Possibly. But the writing had been on the wall from day one, Mary Jane just didn’t want to see it.

This happens often. We see the signs of things and ignore them. When we first met Mary Jane she was seeing Andre; but he always stayed at her place. DEAD GIVEAWAY. Not until after she found out that he was married did things begin to make sense.

Whether it’s asking uncomfortable questions or realizing communication is so much more than what is said, remember longevity lies in a solid foundation and you won’t get there skirting around issues that matter most.