Vetting Your Love Interest: The Dos and Donts

Many Times Improper Vetting Is A Result of A Displacement of Feelings

The truth is that Sheldon was nothing more than a glorified rebound. After things didn’t work out with Andre she went right back to the former love of her life, David. When things didn’t seem to be working out once again between David and Mary Jane, she met Sheldon and things began to take off just for it to be a dud.

Mary Jane was still stuck in a place of familiarity. She knew David so well that even if they weren’t in a relationship, they were (this happens a lot). While there may have been some sense of closure after a breakup, there are still lingering feelings that take time before fading away.

Yes, they usually don’t fully wane into obscurity until someone else comes along; but one wants to make sure that what they aren’t carrying old feelings into something new. Applied knowledge is everything; but you can’t do so unless one knows the lesson they were meant to learn in the first place.