Vetting Your Love Interest: The Dos and Donts

It Isn’t What Is Always Said…

Going back to the reason I ask so many questions. The reason that I do so isn’t just to find out the answer, 93% of communication is non-verbal so literally the words coming out of one’s mouth is almost statistically insignificant; 55% is body language and 38% is tone.

I’m asking questions to see how one responds. Can they think on their toes? What facial expressions are they making to see if they’re being honest? Are their answers consistent?

Essentially, what I am doing is reading body language and tone to see how much they match up with one’s words. When done well, one can extrapolate these moments into extreme circumstances and see how this person would respond in adverse times. I personally run the gamut of possibilities and circumstances; then narrow things down based on probability, how one would react, and what their own behavior has demonstrated.