Celebs Whose Attitudes Keep Them From Winning

Ray J

And while we’re on the subject, we can’t just talk about half of the equation. Ray J is at least part of the reason why a heartbroken Teairra is acting her brokenness out all over the place. Sure, he had every right to leave what he considered to be a tumultuous relationship, where homegirl couldn’t keep her hands to herself. But let’s not pretend that Ray J doesn’t like to stir the pot. The dude literally walked into her face and threw her belongings on the ground, knowing that she’s quick to fly off the handle.

But aside from Teairra, Ray J’s penchant for keeping up mess, whether he’s detailing his past sexcapades in a song or video (it’s not just Kim) or getting arrested for alleged sexual battery, Ray J’s life is full of madness and mayhem. And the sad thing is, I think the dude is actually talented and occasionally charismatic. (I rewatched “Moesha” and his character Dorian was well played.  I dug his first cd and he was so sweet on David Tutera.) But he loves mess: to start it, find it or throw himself into the midst of it. He seems to thrive off of the attention, positive or negative. If he would learn to chill and avoid the foolishness, he could do a whole lot more.