Deciding whether or not to give someone a second chance requires thinking about a lot more than you had to when giving them the first chance. Your pride is involved, and having your heart broken for a second time by the same person is the worst kind of heartbreak. So you need to make sure it’s worth it. Here are 15 questions to ask yourself.
Whose idea was it to break up?
If it was your idea to break up, you might have a good chance because he didn’t want things to end in the first place. You leaving him may have made him think about changes he needs to make. But if he left you, be cautious: there was a time when he decided he didn’t want you. So, how can he flip flop? You haven’t changed so…has he?