Um, I’ll Let You Know…Things People Say Just to Be Polite
5. It’s not you, it’s me.
Relationships don’t always work out, but give that person a chance to make the next one a little better. With you telling them it’s you, and not the fact that they were selfish, inconsiderate and unmotivated, you’re not allowing them the opportunity to work on themselves so that they can work it out with someone else.