It’s Not You, It’s Both Of You: How Men And Women Can Be Hypocrites In Relationships
Date night
A common problem in relationships is that after a while, the couple stops “dating”—they stop planing fun things to do together and instead get into a funk of watching TV and going to sleep. Men complain that often when they do try to be spontaneous and plan something, their girlfriends aren’t up for it because they weren’t prepared and it doesn’t fit into their schedule. And while that’s true, plenty of women complain of trying to be spontaneous, and their partners being too tired, or just wanting a night in after a long day at work. Here’s the thing: spontaneity will never fit perfectly into your schedule, and life is always exhausting—so both parties could be a bit more flexible.