Brother, Get a Grip! 9 Signs Your Man Has Serious Insecurity Issues

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He Always Tries to Break Up With You First

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8. He Always Tries to Break Up With You First

Some insecure men play this game where they are always threatening to end the relationship by saying such things as, “You should be with someone else” or “You don’t want me, I’m leaving.” He’s testing you to see if you love him enough to beg him to stay; if it backfires and you agree to the breakup, of course, he backpedals and takes it all back. This back and forth game that he’s playing with you basically comes down to one thing: he’s afraid of losing you – so much so that he feels it’ll hurt less if he breaks up with you first, on his own terms, even if that’s not really what he wants. It’s an act of desperation to test your love and loyalty, and if you “fail” the test, he can always say that you never loved him to begin with and use the breakup as a way to justify his insecurities.

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