Why Her and Not Me?! 9 Reasons He Chose Her Over You

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1. Timing

Sometimes, it really just comes down to timing. It may seem like “bad” timing to you, but if a man isn’t ready to settle down, he simply won’t. Point, blank, period. You can be the best girlfriend in the world, cater to his every need, sex him up crazy, cook his favorite food – the whole nine yards. I mean, you could do none of those things but still be a great catch. But if he’s not ready to commit or marry you within the span of your relationship, there’s nothing you can do about it. He may even concede that you’re the best girlfriend he’s ever had but it won’t matter if his head isn’t there yet. It may not have been his intention to “string you along” either – he may not have realized it.  But if for some reason he becomes ready six months after you break up and he commits to someone else, all that means is he wasn’t yours to begin with and is not the one who was designed for you.

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