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While a vibrator is not actually a “battery-operated boyfriend”, but simply a fun addition to a healthy sex life, the idea of introducing it to your flesh and blood partner may be as daunting as if your toy were a real man. Some years ago, an ex-flame of mine took a look at my vibe and sputtered, “women don’t even need men anymore. You all can just buy one of these and go to the sperm bank and do it all without us!”. ‘Ex-flame’, indeed.
By no means do you have to include your partner in your toy time; some folks rather just keep those things to themselves and there’s nothing wrong with having a private masturbation ritual. However, you most certainly shouldn’t feel like you HAVE to hide your vibrator or dildo. Here are a few tips for bringing the plastic and the flesh in your life together in harmony…
