Love or Competition: Which is Your Relationship Based On?
- By
Julia Austin
Why do you fight?
I’ve said it before but it really is an important distinction you should be able to make about your relationship: when you fight, do you do it because of a deep desire to get closer to your partner—to work through issues/misunderstandings/disagreements that are creating a distance between you? Or, do you fight to hurt him? Do the things you do and say when fighting actually serve zero purpose in terms of making things better? If you ever actually want to hurt your partner, you’re competing to be the less weak one, once again.
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