His Paternity Leave Is Your Postpartum Plan - Page 2
Paternity leave is treated as his benefit, but it decides how your postpartum weeks actually go. Learn what the law really guarantees.
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When new fathers take paternity leave, they’re helping the mother avoid physical strain and avoid getting back on her feet too soon. Involved dads give mom as much-needed care as the newborn by preventing the isolation and exhaustion that can spike her cortisol, which elevates postpartum risk, especially in Black women. However, American law doesn’t guarantee that parental time off for fathers will be paid, leaving them to rely on the FMLA or potentially access a private employer’s generous benefits.
The United States Census Bureau reported that the percentage of fathers with a first-born child who didn’t use leave decreased from 77% prior to 1994 compared to 35% between 2014 and 2022. Furthermore, today’s first-time dads were 37% more likely to use their vacation benefits than mothers within the first 12 weeks after birth. Whatever method a new father takes to spend some time at home during this period can have positive effects on a Black mother’s mental and physical health, from acting as her ride-or-die advocate at medical appointments to providing unspoken emotional support.
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Why Does Paternity Leave Matter in Postpartum Care?

A Black mom’s mental health needs as much protection as her physical recovery during this fragile time. New moms are less likely to face complications from being overburdened with a child when help and emotional support from her partner are there.
When new fathers utilize their parental leave rights, it’s a big step in preventing one of the biggest issues in Black Maternal Health: postpartum depression. A 2023 study by James, Smith, Robinson, et al., for the Journal of Clinical Medicine reported that 29 to 44% of Black women experienced postpartum depressive symptoms, many of whom didn’t receive mental health care services.
The discussion around the high Black female maternal death rate often focuses on the delivery room, but death can occur once mom and baby seem warm and snug at home.
With dad around more, there’s someone who may notice signs not only of postpartum depression, but potentially fatal hemorrhage or preeclampsia.
According to the Population Reference Bureau, the statistics are severe, as black mothers are:
- 5 times more likely to die from postpartum cardiomyopathy
- 5 times more likely to die from preeclampsia
- 2 times more likely to die of hemorrhage or embolism
From prenatal visits to post-delivery follow-up exams, a new father can advocate for mom (and baby’s) health at all stages.
The Breastfeeding Link
Babies also benefit from early dad bonding, especially at dinner time. For example, the 2025 study by Parker, Simon, and Garfield for BMC Public Health showed a higher rate of breastfeeding at the 8-week postpartum mark when dad had work leave beyond 2 weeks.
Consequently, how long paternity leave is indirectly affects how much comprehensive nutrition and lowered disease risk the little one will have. As the CDC reports, breastfeeding protects from asthma and childhood leukemia in addition to transferring antibodies from the mother.
When Black mothers can breastfeed with ease, it also reduces their:
- Risk of breast and ovarian cancer
- High blood pressure
- Type 2 diabetes
Do American Men Have Paternity Leave Benefits?

Sadly, American men do not have a guaranteed federal right to paid paternity leave. However, they may receive unpaid federal leave under the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), which gives male employees up to 12 weeks of unpaid job-protected leave. In addition to birth, they can use it after adopting or taking on foster placement of a child.
There is a waiting period for FMLA eligibility, as the father must have worked at least 1,250 hours during the 12 months before his leave begins.
Do New Father Rights Change Based on Their Location?
Your job selection matters, as some private employers incorporate paid leave in their benefits packages. Top companies offering this benefit for both parents and secondary caregivers include:
- American Express
- Adobe
- Hewlett Packard Enterprise
If you’re not sure how long is paternity leave, check your rights under state and federal law.
A Black family living in selected states, including New Jersey and Massachusetts, can use additional state programs that offer partial wage replacement after childbirth. Paid family leave in New York is one of the strongest statewide, with up to 12 weeks of paid time off for fathers and mothers.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who Has the Worst Paternity Leave?
The United States and Papua New Guinea rank as the top countries with the worst paternity leave policies. Both places offer zero weeks of federally mandated or statutory paid leave.
Countries with minimal paternity leave include Turkiye, which has three days of statutory paternity leave, while Mexico has 5 days.
The United Kingdom gives new fathers about two weeks of paid leave at a flat rate, ranking among the lowest in Europe.
Which States Have the Best Paternity Leave?
States with the best Paid Family Leave include:
- Oregon
- Minnesota
- Colorado
- Washington
- Massachusetts
Why Doesn’t the USA Have Better Maternity Leave?
Maternity leave has been an equally contentious issue in the United States as paternity leave has been. The legality doesn’t exist at the federal level, with the United States being the only high-income country without a national law requiring employers to provide paid time off for parents.
Additionally, there are weak unpaid rules, and beyond that, additional state benefits vary. Only a handful of states have created their own programs.
In other words, getting solid maternity or paternity leave can be a roll of the dice, left up to your private employer, unless you’re a business owner who makes your own decisions.
Additionally, many powerful business lobbies are against making required paid leave federal mandates, citing it can increase operational costs.
Quality Dad Time Matters for Mom and Baby
Taking paternity leave lets fathers bond with their babies and help mothers by giving her much-needed breaks and emotional support. Their presence can serve as advocacy in hospitals before and after delivery, spotting signs of postpartum depression and potentially fatal issues.
Without federal mandates, more fathers are still taking time off into their hands with vacation time or checking private employment benefits.
Know your rights in the workplace and caring for your family, and check more articles on our website.
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