Give & Take: Signs That You Are Too Much Of A Giver
Everyone Dumps Their Problems On You
Do you find yourself being that person that people call for solutions for all of their problems? This role is very endearing because it means that you are caring enough that people think of you when they need some support. You are their shoulder to cry on and their rock to lean on. Usually people in this role love the opportunity to be there for their friends or family in their time of need. However, when it gets to the point where people call you to fix any and every problem in their life, no matter how minuscule, that becomes a problem. Everyone loves to help but when it starts to become a burden maybe you are doing less helping and more enabling. And ask yourself if I was ever in the need of help would the same people help me?