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Psalms for Black Girls

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So, I have a new dog, Franklin, who is 1000 watts of big puppy energy that sparks at about 7 a.m. and burns hard and bright deep into the evening, which means I spend a lot of time trying to wear him out, doing what I’d barely ever do if I wasn’t a dog mom: I walk. A lot. And all that walking has me seeing things I’d hardly noticed—interacting with people I hadn’t before. It’s… interesting.

See, I live in a neighborhood in midtown Atlanta, where 100-year-old shotgun houses in which your Black aunties and uncles built their lives and raised their families and praised their God have been largely replaced with multi-story houses and overpriced condos occupied by
significantly more affluent and mostly white residents who cut an interesting portrait in the warm ATL sunrise.

Their lawns are littered with signs that I suppose are meant to announce their beliefs and politics: “Black Lives Matter” posters dance on yardsticks, rainbow flags flap in the wind, and practically every other fence/tree/porch stages colorful portraits of Georgia gubernatorial candidate Stacey Abrams and dark blue signs with “Warnock” written big and bold, assuring passersby that Abrams and U.S. Senator Raphael Warnock, both democrats, each have the homeowner’s vote over the candidates’ respective conservative Republican opponents, Gov. Brian Kemp and that numbskull Hershel Walker.
Franklin and Stacey Abrams signage

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I find these poster pronouncements most interesting when the owners of said homes peek out from their porches and front doors and the end of their driveways, clad in their Lululemon and expensive training shoes, having gentrified this formerly Black neighborhood into an unrecognizably homogenous affair, completely missing the irony of it all as they stare at this Black woman with the adorable puppy skipping down the street, happy and free—like I’m a festering boogie man with a ferocious dog, invading their special space. My waves and cheery “good mornings” are mostly met with tepid “helloes,” if they bother to speak at all. This Black human—a woman, a mother, a daughter, a writer, a dedicated, lifelong Democrat, a kind and caring neighbor to those who deserve it—is most certainly not someone whose life matters to these people. At least it doesn’t feel like it. Those “all are welcome” signs aren’t meant for me and mine.
This was what was on my mind this morning as I listened to yet another news report blathering on and on about how tight the race is between Warnock and Walker and how screwed Abrams is—both made reality allegedly because Black male voters are skewing conservative and Republican and are sitting so squarely on Donald Trump’s nutsack that they’d vote against Abrams and Warnock, if they bother to vote at all. Like, pollsters and pundits are legit spreading like wildfire this notion that Black men are going to be the downfall of two of the most prominent Black Dems in the country and, by extension, the slim Democratic majority in the Senate because they no longer want to vote for… Black people.
This is being said as if the very Lululemon-clad neighbors with the “Black Lives Matter” signs on their lawns won’t do what they actually do practically every election: vote their interests, which, despite the “Black Lives Matter” signs and the polls and their insistence that they give a damn about Black issues and abortion rights and human immigration policy and the climate and all the things, tend to fall lockstep with conservative Republican white men. Just last week, a Wall Street Journal poll revealed that white women have “significantly” shifted their support from Democrats to Republicans as they fret over inflation and the economy. This should be a surprise to exactly no one when we consider that that same voting bloc, which makes up 41 percent of the electorate, helped secure Trump’s election in 2016; 47 percent of white women voted for the now-disgraced former president, with 35 percent of college-educated white women and 56 percent of white women without college degrees pulling the lever for the man they swore before God, CNN and the Pew Research Center they would never support.
You know who most tends to vote for Democrats? Black women. You know which voting bloc is most likely to follow suit? Black men. Mondale Robinson, founder of the Black Male Voter Project (BVMP), told NPR that laying a Democratic loss at the feet of supposedly increasingly conservative Black men would be disingenuous and “dangerous.”
“It makes it seem like Black men are costing people elections when, in actuality, Black men voted closer to Black women than anyone else in the country,” Robinson told NPR.
In other words, it’s a fool’s bet to lay the blame of any of the midterm Democratic losses at the feet of Black men. Or at the feet of Black people in general, who stay getting accused of being politically apathetic and too lazy/busy/honery to vote, thus making themselves the main cause of Democratic losses.
Here’s what I know: I’m tired of us being made the brunt of the blame when Democrats don’t get their way. And I’m especially tired of the pass white voters get by default. Those weathered pieces of cardboard on their front lawns ain’t fooling nobody. They read like lies, hiding how all-too-many really feel about the Black people they displaced and who they’ll really vote for when no one can actually see and what they really think about the Black woman with the puppy all-too-many of them would rather not see walking along “their” sidewalks before they’ve had the chance to sip their morning coffee.
Black lives matter my ass.
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